I believe the 2 biggest problems We have with making the move are the following:

I believe the 2 biggest problems We have with making the move are the following:

1. I’ve grown up with siblings and lived with girls in university. You don’t learn about the guy that is cute flirted. You learn about exactly exactly how she ended up being having a day that is perfectly fine a man had the gall to speak with her. “I’m here to sort out. Never to flirt! ” “I’m here for coffee, not to ever flirt! ” “I’m here to learn, to not ever flirt! ”

The thing that is whole completely incorrect because I’ve been led to trust girls hate being flirted with. Why would i wish to initiate this kind of discussion?

2. Provided the aforementioned, the following expectation that a man should result in the move simply seems…insulting? Like, I’m likely to flirt with girls (that they don’t desire) in the off chance they are into me personally. It’s not rejection I’m worried about if I am wrong. I’ve gotten death threats.

I’m like I’m being forced to relax and play court jester and when they like my performance, great. When they don’t, I’m fed into the crocs. Therefore the reaction to take this danger is what…. Your business? How about my business? Is the fact that completely useless for you?

IDK, the thing that is whole feels too one-sided.

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